Your
Walls Must Come Down
I often tell people who have habits of building
up walls that they are creating something which will place
them in isolation as well as in desolation. What do I mean?
Glad you asked. ? Isolation is when one separates from another
substance to become free from a situation or state. Isolation
normally brings about desolation which is a forsaken or
lonely state. Basically, when we place up walls, isolation
begins to change our character, which can affect a person’s
rational way of thinking. This can cause us to experience
the illness called loneliness.
They say it takes 21 days to form or break
a habit. The last thing you want is for your character to
be changed due to placing yourself in isolation. Isolation
is guaranteed to change you and form habits which are not
healthy. NO ONE who has hurt you in any way is worth changing
your character or motives in life. Your behavior should
change for the better, due to learning from past mistakes,
but if you go into isolation, you’re not allowing
yourself the opportunity for others to see your value or
worth.
Finally, walls obscure a person’s vision.
What do I mean? Glad you asked. ? Walls are usually solid
or very difficult to see through. Walls are designed to
protect, keep private, or used as a boundary. When it comes
to relationships, walls are only good when you want to keep
SOMETHING or SOMEONE out of your life. However, in doing
so it becomes unfortunate for others, because now this wall
which was created to keep out the bad…becomes an obstacle
for good. Unfortunately, someone who is good is now forced
to endure the hardship and possibly place themselves in
danger, by climbing a wall, in order to reach something
or someone who purposely placed themselves in isolation.
How can anyone see or know a persons value,
unless they climb the wall and join them in isolation? The
only way to find out is to TAKE A CHANCE. We can take reasonable
chances in life by thinking smarter. This especially applies
to the individual, who is behind the wall; the one who is
in isolation.
Instead of building a wall and placing yourself
in isolation…how about finding other ways of protecting
yourself. What other way could there be? Glad you asked.
How about installing a security system? People can then
see your value/worth instead of having it blocked by a wall/isolation.
In other words, people can try all they want to kill, steal,
hurt or destroy your joy but they will never succeed without
knowing the code. They can view your heart but can’t
touch it.
Allow your security system to be God/Jesus/Angels
and the Holy Spirit. They will protect and keep you safe.
They will work together by sounding an alarm in your heart
and mind to inform you there is danger lurking. Allow God
to guard your heart and not a wall. Again, you should always
want people to see your value and worth. Install a security
system and take down the walls. Jesus is all the protection
you need. Even a thief can climb over or tear down a wall.
Remember walls are man made. Your security system is supernatural.
Allow Jesus to have the key/code to your heart. It’s
time for YOUR WALLS TO COME DOWN!!!
Undeserved
Love
It’s
funny how “Man/Humanity’s” definition
of love always ends up with conditions instead of being
what love truly is...unconditional. If we love with the
love of Christ, we should know that in all things God works
for the good of those who love him, who have been called
according to His purpose.
A
Blessing from God is given to us through unconditional love.
Just like Grace it's actually undeserved but God loves us
enough to provide it. I often wondered why the greatest
commandment (Matthew 22:37-39), which sounds so simple,
is difficult for many to keep. I realize it's because some
people’s heart are not PURE enough to love someone
with the type of Love Jesus spoke of and exemplified. The
type of love He commands us to have is unconditional and
cannot have stipulations if it's pure.
On
the flip side, if I know someone loves me with the love
of Christ and I push them away…that would be denying
a Blessing, which was sent by God through Grace. Though
I did not earn or even deserve it, God still loved me enough
to present it as a gift. Who gives back or turns away a
gift that’s genuine. Anything which God gives us is
indeed genuine and works for our good.
Agape
love shows no favor and has no respect of person. It judges
not your name whether your deaf, dumb, blind or lame, even
where you live or from whence you came, one thing will remain
God’s love is unconditional and will forever stay
the same. Man’s love is imperfect and changes like
the season (It’s always contingent upon something).
A
pure heart has no conditions and does not follow traditions
and will never undergo a transition. It will always stay
the same…PURE (containing nothing that does not properly
belong). We as Christians should pray and ask God to purify
our hearts so we can love unconditionally. A pure heart
guarantees you are giving that significant other, family
member, friend, acquaintance or colleague....THE LOVE OF
CHRIST. Do we deserve His love? Certainly not…yet
we receive it! Truly God is Love. So how can we place conditions
on something which is underserved?
1 John 3:16-17 (NIV)
16This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down
his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for
our brothers. 17If anyone has material possessions and sees
his brother in need but has no pity on him, how can the
love of God be in him?
1
Corinthians 13:1-13